Sorry about my complete absence from here. I’ve been really bad about my social networking lately. Please forgive me. If you want some of my updates, come to my vlog I update there twice a week, and there are two others on there that update with me. Kari and Lisa are wonderful, and they add a bit of variety to the vlog, which is wonderful.
I’ve been working on two stories lately. I’ll give you a hint of what they’re about.
Kiss and Tell
A soft kiss. I mean a real kiss, not the fake kisses you share just because you think you might have some soft of feeling for someone, be it lust or romantic aspiration. I’m talking about an honest to God kiss that makes you feel complete. That and only that is what I will accept.
I thought back to all those times I saw my parents kiss. It was a routine for them, but I could still see how much each kiss meant to them. It was as if their entire beings were held together by that simple moment of physical contact.
I’ve never had that. I’ve also never had the other kind of kiss. I was very picky on who I was going to kiss first, and that had resulted in either me turning down girls, or girls turning me down.
My reputation at school had two parts. One was that of the unkissable Andrew. The other was as the kid who only wore video game shirts. Today, I wore an angry birds shirt that I ordered in the mail and paid twenty-six dollars for.
I liked video game shirts. They made me feel like a hipster without having to be a prick, not that I liked the idea of hipsters having to look a certain way or hipsters in general. I did, however, like the feeling of liking something before it was really popular.
It’s like all the people who shoved me around for what I liked suddenly thought that video games were cool. Sadly, they didn’t even like video games that I enjoyed, yet I was seen as cool for wearing all my game related shirts. That lasted about three weeks.
After that, I was Andrew Lefebvre again. My father was born Henry Smith, but when he learned about his French heritage, his name changed to match his bloodline, and I had to explain that every single time I told someone about my last name. Technically, it means the same things, but I’d rather be Smith.
Anyway, back to the kiss. My girlfriend, Chastity, waited for six months hoping for a kiss from me. We had sex at least twenty times, but our lips never once met. She felt cheated, I felt rushed, and we ended about twenty minutes ago
Our relationship started out with just her trying to steal a kiss from me. That’s where the first fifteen sexual encounters came from. It wasn’t anything wonderful. She wasn’t the first to try and use sex to get a kiss out of me.
Then, she decided to get to know me a bit more. I didn’t understand it at first. Nobody cared to enter my world, my realm of thinking. It was just me, what I did, how I thought. I had interruptions like school, sex, and my job, but for the most part it was me.
That was how I lived life. I can’t say that I enjoyed it, but it was better than letting others in. That being say, why did I feel so empty now that Lisa was gone? The last two months were an improvement on our relationship. It was turning into a real relationship. She was even starting to get into the games that I hardly played anymore.
Lisa, was becoming a girlfriend that I could enjoy being around. Then… Then she tried to kiss me again. I let out a soft whimper and turned my head. I thought I was ready. I thought it was real, yet I still turned away.
I could tell she was hurt from it. I was no longer an experiment to her. She loved me, but in my heart something was missing.
Lisa was wearing my favorite of her game shirts along with her cat ears and tail. Her tail swished with her hips as she walked away. It took me a minute to realize that that was it, but now I hurt. I didn’t know why I hurt, but I did.
I felt tears slip down my cheeks. Their splashes made me chuckle. It was over. I was starting to fall for her, and then it was over. Why did I turn away? I still didn’t understand it. I thought I wanted to kiss her. I almost went it myself. Was that it? Did I subconsciously want to feel comfortable enough to make the first move?
At twenty-two years old, I thought I’d be able to handle pain on my own. I wasn’t going to run to my parents. That was for sure, but the more I thought on things, the worse I felt. I had to do something to escape this horrible feeling from deep within my heart, or at least it felt like my heart. There was definitely a pain in the middle of my chest, so I had to assume that it was my heart, yet I didn’t know what was truly the source of the pain.
I was thinking too much, so I called my friend, Nathan. He always had an answer for my problem, though they usually had to do with, “Alcohol? Nate, I’m not going to get drunk just to get through this. The last thing I need is to make anymore poor choices.”
Nate laughed at my comment then said that he’d be over soon. I knew he wasn’t going to take long to get there, but I didn’t mind that. I called him with a problem, which was my mistake, but I didn’t want to be rude and shoot his solution down. Jake did have a very good way of solving some of my problems. He’s the one who put together a small group of friends just for me back when we first met freshman year of college. All of those friends had gone their own ways after a few months, but we still chat once a month via video calls.
I looked over to my high school class ring and rolled my eyes. I took so much pride in just the simple pleasure of escaping the institution that is high school. I never really thought about how things were back then anymore. I didn’t like it back then. The whole kissless reputation was even worse, and even a few of the teachers tried to find a way to get someone to kiss me. That’s why I grew to hate mistletoe. Love and romance were not the same thing, yet a leaf was supposed to mean something on both scales.
Almost every other person in the world was a fool, but there were people like Jake, who had horrible ideas that tended to have astonishingly good results. I was starting to hope that tonight was going to be the same.
French The Llama: A Nerdfighterlove Story
Chapter 1 Ashley
Nerdfighters were defined as people who didn’t have bones, blood, or organs. Instead, they were completely made of awesome. That was how John and Hank Green explained the term. I had wasn’t exactly sure what it meant to be made of awesome, but I was always seen as a nerd, so it worked.
I was Ashley. It was a normal name, but I liked it. Names didn’t define who you were. John and Hank didn’t have amazing names, and even Einstein’s first name wasn’t much better. If a man named Albert could be one of the brightest minds in history, then maybe a girl named Ashley, who just so happened to be a made of awesome nerdfighter, could do something great as well, even if she hated math and numbers that weren’t associated with the community that she loved.
I really do like my name. There are plenty of reasons not to like a name. My name for instance means from the ash tree meadow/field but also stands for beautiful valley. A few boys in school found out about that, and they took the meaning on a very perverted path.
Anyway, I was watching an old Vlogbrothers response video. The one that had Maureen Johnson, one of John’s writer friends, put up in regards to John’s last brotherhood 2.0 video. It felt like so long ago that I had first started watching the vlogbrothers, and honestly, I loved all of their old videos.
I found out about John by reading his first collaboration book at a friend’s house. Let It Snow really captured me, though the fact that it was Christmas Eve helped get me really excited to read a holiday book.
After I finished Let It Snow, I started to look into John, Maureen, and Lauren. That first Google search introduced me to John and Hank’s YouTube channel. I started buying everything I could from DFTBA.com. I had plenty of shirts, all of the CDs, I even wore two Ester bracelets, even though I had about ten in my room, waiting for a home.
As time moved on, I decided that I should probably be more involved in nerdfighteria, so I started a fund. I had no clue what I was going to do with it, but it was something, and something was always better than nothing.
I learned that the hard way. My previous boyfriend left me because I was so inactive. In my defense, he was my first, and we were both in middle school, but the point was that I wasn’t doing anything. Our relationship consisted of 1. me giving him a hug when we met up, 2. him telling me about his new invention idea, 3. me pretending to understand what he was talking about, and 4. Mom giving us snacks.
That was it though. I ruined a perfectly good first boyfriend through my inactivity, and although I was a different person, I could never go back to him. He wasn’t even a nerdfighter. He thought that the internet, music, and fiction were all useless. I don’t even remember what I saw in him. I blamed my inaction. When he asked, I didn’t say no. He took it as yes, and I didn’t argue. I just did nothing.
Years later, I was still single, but I knew what to do next time I was asked out. I had a list of things to look for in a guy. First and foremost he had to be a nerdfighter. That was the most important part, and if he had an Ester bracelet, that’d be a big bonus on his part. He’d also have to be into good music. I don’t mean the trendy stuff either. I wanted him to know what real music was, how to let it reach deep into his soul.
I guess I had high standards, but I wasn’t about to let myself be in a relationship that wasn’t worth holding onto. Loneliness was one hell of a tool.
I chuckled at the thought then turned on my computer and got ready to make a vlog. I looked at my outfit, a hot pink tank top and a light red skirt that had white hearts all over it. My eyes scanned over my nearly bare arm. My charm bracelet was over my left Ester bracelet. It had three charms, a llama, a rose, and a butterfly. I loved all of them, and a few of my viewers noticed my bracelet.
My newest vlog was about going back to school after winter break. My teachers were the same, but they felt like being lazy on the first day back. No homework. Yay, I guess.
After an hour, Mom got home, and walked into my room as my video finished uploading. I only had six followers. One was Mom, and two were friends that died in a car accident last year. True nerdfighters that I miss a lot.
Mom came up to check on me, two bags of Chinese takeout in her hands. I chuckled and walked over to take the one on her left. Mom always kept her things in her right hand. It was one of the wonderful things about Mom. She really tried to make up for everything.
Three years ago, Mom was caught cheating on Dad. I was never told the details, but what I do know is that Dad left. He was going to go on a trip to see his old college buddies. I thought he was going to come back for me. He told me that if he ended things with Mom, he’d do everything he could to keep me.
That never happened. Dad called Mom the day before he was supposed to come back. They had a very long discussion. Mom was taking the right steps. The man she cheated with was out of her life, and she started to focus more on housework when she was home. Dad was really happy with that. I even eavesdropped on them and heard laughter on both sides. My family wasn’t going to be broken up.
Mom and I heard the entire thing. Dad was talking on his blutooth headpiece.on his way home. A drunk driver rammed his giant SUV into Dad’s car. “That guy’s coming pretty fast,” Dad said before he yelled out, “Oh crap!” After that, there was a loud crash. I started crying out for Dad, but the last thing I heard before the connection died was, “Oh shit, man. I think he’s dead. We better get the hell outta here. I don’t need more fucking charges.”
I recognized the voice, and so did Mom. It was the same man she was cheating with on Dad. We spent the next three months proving that he was the one who did it.
Mom took things really hard, but the day he was thrown in prison, Mom changed. Her focus was on me, like she felt as though she was at fault for everything. “If I hadn’t been with that man, your father wouldn’t have had to leave. If I was a faithful wife, you’d still have a dad.”
From that day forth, I decided I was never going to love someone who drank or had large trucks or SUVs. If a man like that came into my life, but he changed everything, I’d give him a chance. I won’t let people like that man into my heart.
I decided that tonight was a good night to talk with Mom about college, so after we ate disgustingly amazing, carb filled dinner of awesome, I told Mom that I wasn’t sure where I was going to go. She instantly grabbed her old college scrapbook.
That was the best part of having a nerdy mother. She didn’t have to remember every little detail about her younger days. She had proof that her life was filled with sex-craved boys wanting her slightly large body.
Most guys just liked my hips. I did too, but that was against the point. It felt very odd for guys to focus on one part of my body. Even the ones who said I had beautiful eyes looked at my hips at least half the time. Stupid liars.
When we were done talking about Mom’s four years of higher education, it was time for bed. I decided that I’d start off at a community college and figure out my other options later. I still had about a year and a half before high school was over.
Life was still good, all things considered. I had a wonderful mother, who loved me, and there were three people I didn’t know following my vlogs on youtube. What more did I need?